Ending Your Marriage Amicably

4 Tips For Preparing For Life After Divorce

The challenges that accompany the end of marriage are many.  Ending a relationship of this magnitude can be difficult to do. The key to getting through this time in life may rest in how you plan on being alone. Of course, the amount of time you have to do so can determine your ultimate success. Knowing tips that will aid you in living alone are ideal for you to know. Tip #1: Avoid major purchases The last thing you will want to do is to spend a lot of money on things you don’t have to buy. For instance, can your car last a bit longer? If so, relying on it for a longer amount of time will be one less payment you will need to make. Tip #2: Gather financial documents It’s in your best interest to get all of your important financial information together. This may include deeds to any real estate that you own or a title on vehicles. Be sure to have your financial documents in one place so you can get to these easily. Tip #3: Plan for living alone It’s ideal to make a budget of your monthly expenses when you suddenly have to live alone. This will enable you to know financially what to expect to make the most out of your money and plan ahead. Listed below are some things to consider: 1. The cost of where you rent or your mortgage payment. 2. The amount of your food expenses each month. 3. Transportation costs that may include gasoline and insurance. 4. Health insurance on yourself for peace of mind. The... read more

Three Disputes You Should Let Go Of During A Divorce

If you are going through a divorce, this can bring up a wide array of emotions and might make you act in ways you aren’t proud of. While divorce proceedings can be tedious, it is important to balance the line of protecting your rights and not being selfish because you are hurt. Here are three disputes you might be better off letting go of when going through a divorce. 1. Let Go of Being Angry Don’t draw out your divorce because you want to punish your ex by proving them wrong in the process. This can waste time, court fees, and payments to lawyers. By not agreeing to initial settlements that might actually be fair, a judge might not actually end up reaching an outcome you are happy with in the end. Your divorce attorney can help you with advice when it comes to holding out on otherwise fair settlements just because you are angry. 2. Let Go of Fighting for Full Custody Unless there is a very valid reason that you should be warranted full custody of your children, finding an agreement for shared custody will be more customary and easier to agree on. If you sincerely think it would be harmful for your children to have unsupervised time with your ex-spouse, that is one thing. If you are just trying to hurt your ex, there will be little grounds for unfounded claims of full custody needs. Your divorce attorney can help look at your scenario and help decide if you truly have a case for full custody, or if you might be going too extreme of a... read more

Getting Divorced? 3 Questions You Need Answers To

When you make the decision to get a divorce, it may not be something that you can handle on your own, and that’s okay. A divorce attorney can be helpful in a number of ways, from getting you the monetary settlement that you deserve to helping you fight for full custody of the children if that route is taken. If you are going in to speak to an attorney, here are a few questions that you will want to ask and receive answers for: 1. How Much Is This Going to Cost? Every divorce is different, so it may be impossible to give you a 100 percent accurate amount. However, after reviewing the details of your case, a lawyer should be able to give you a ballpark estimate of what it is going to cost. At the very least, the attorney can provide you with the amount of the fees that he or she will charge as well as the filing fees. 2. How Is Spousal and Child Support Calculated? In both instances, there are several factors that are taken into consideration. For spousal support (or alimony), some factors considered are the standard of living during your marriage, current income of each spouse, earning capacity of both spouses, interest of children, duration of marriage, and possibly even fault of the divorce. For child support, the basic elements considered include both parent’s income, the financial needs of the child, the standard of living prior to divorce, the paying parent’s ability to pay, the income needs of the parent who will receive the support, family structure and the age of the... read more

Child Support And Its Enforcement: What You Need To Know

If you are parents who are divorcing, your minor children and their needs play a major role in your divorce agreement. The courts take a strong stance on providing legal protections for these vulnerable and innocent parties in a divorce situation, and the judicial system has enacted stringent laws to ensure that their care continues past the final decree. Child support laws and guidelines have been put in place, and the courts take their enforcement seriously, so read on for more information about laws enacted to ensure that minor children are financially protected with child support. Penalties for non-payment of child support. The ‘best interest of the child” mandate adopted by family law courts mean severe penalties for failing to pay support amounts as ordered, including: Wage garnishment Contempt of court charges Liens on property (real estate, vehicles, etc.) Arrest and jail time Income tax refunds withheld Expulsion from government aid programs, such as food stamps and Section 8. Revocation of driver’s license Exclusion from government-backed mortgage loan programs, like USDA and FHA loans, as well as government-backed student loan programs. Child support is federally enforced. All states are empowered to enforce child support orders, no matter what state the support order originated in. Moreover, if you are found guilty of purposely moving to evade paying as ordered, (Deadbeat Parents Punishment Act), you may be charged with a federal crime. What to do if you cannot pay. Local child support enforcement agencies will work with you to create a repayment plan to help you get caught up, so don’t ignore your responsibility to your child when you encounter financial... read more

Adopted Child Custody Battle Against Birth Parents: What A Lawyer Can Do

Did the birth parents of your adopted child threaten you about getting custody back? You will need to hire a lawyer to handle the dispute cordially and prevent your child from going through a stressful situation. Find out in this article why hiring a lawyer is the best way to get through a child custody dispute with birth parents, as well as what his or her assistance is estimated to cost.   Why Should an Adoptive Parent Hire a Lawyer for a Custody Dispute? The adoption process that you went through to get your child will determine if the birth parents have rights or not. If the agreement for you to care for the child was not handled in court, it is possible that any documents that you have are not legally binding. A lawyer will review your adoption documents to make sure you have a strong case against the birth parents. He or she will also obtain any court records that available as proof that the adoption process was legal, as the documents is all that is needed to move forward. Even if you can prove that the child was legally adopted, a lawyer will prepare for whatever the birth parents may bring up against you in court. For instance, your lawyer will build your case by doing things that include: Gathering your income statements Investigating the background of the birth parents Obtaining evidence of your connection with the child It is also possible for a lawyer to help you obtain a temporary restraining order against the birth parents. After your case is won in court, the restraining... read more

Child Custody In Cases Of Child Abuse: Questions And Answers

As a parent, you want to protect your child from any type of harm, even if the injury is being caused by your spouse. The law recognizes that children are not strong enough or old enough to combat abuse, and if there is valid proof of child abuse or neglect, a child may be removed from a home. In cases where one parent is the abuser, custody of the child may be relegated to the “safe” parent. Here are a few questions and answers to help make sense of child custody in cases of child abuse: What is considered abuse? Any action that threatens the emotional or physical well being of a minor is considered child abuse. Likewise, a lack of action may be deemed neglect. If a child is not provided with adequate medical treatment, food or personal hygiene items, he or she may be considered neglected, and the parent or parents responsible for providing for the youngster may be found unfit. Likewise, any signs of emotional, physical or sexual harm may be termed abuse and will lessen the chance of a parent being awarded custody. Who gets custody if there is evidence that both parents abused a child? In cases where both parents are found unfit due to neglect or abuse, care of the abused child may be assumed by a government agency, such as the Department of Family and Children Services. In such a case, the child may be assigned to a foster family or a relative. Can the abusing parent visit the child after custody is awarded to the fit parent? To prevent further harm... read more

3 Child Support Myths Debunked

Child support tends to have a number of myths associated with it. Failure to clear up these myths can lead to financial trouble for the child and custodial parent and legal trouble for the court-ordered payer. Below are three common child support myths and the facts behind them. Myth #1: As Soon as the Child Turns 18, Child Support is No Longer Paid While your child may legally be considered an adult on their eighteenth birthday, the age of 18 doesn’t always mean child support ends. States vary in their child support laws which means final child support payment age can range from completion of high school to age 22 if the child is enrolled in an accredited educational program. While child support may end, keep in mind that other financial obligations, such as college support, may be required. College support can be a part of child support obligations, but they can also be a separately agreed upon support that was decided prior to divorce finalization. Myth #2: Back Payments Don’t Have to Be Paid After Child Support Payments Stop The age that signals the end of child support obligation may not always mean the end of your required child support payments. If you didn’t pay the entire amount ordered by the court, or you fell behind on your payments for whatever reason, you’re still required to pay support until the back payments are paid in full. Back payments aren’t payments for an adult child. Instead, you’re repaying your ex-partner for the times they stepped in and covered the financial gap caused by your non-paid child support. Back payments... read more

Tips for Finding a Quality Child Custody Lawyer

Divorce, as unpleasant and often painful as it is, is a fact of life in some cases. It’s an unfortunate event in any person’s life. And when children are involved, it’s even more layered and challenging. If you have children and you’re getting divorced, they are your highest priority. You want the best for them, and in some cases, that means you want to fight for full or partial custody. Ensuring your children are safe and healthy is of utmost importance.  When searching for the right family and divorce attorney, you want to look for specific qualities in your legal professional. It is recommended that single parents interview a potential child custody attorney before hiring them so that you can adequately express your needs and concerns, and ultimately find the right fit. Some elements to focus on are Style and personality: Choose an attorney who is comfortable asking for what they want. You need someone who isn’t timid and who isn’t afraid to speak up and truly be your advocate. Your children are everything to you, so you need a representative who can successfully convey your message.  Experience: The last thing you want is to hire an attorney who has no past experience in custody cases. Ask your potential lawyer how many cases they have taken on versus how many they have won. Don’t be shy about this. You have a right to know, and it’s the smart thing to do so you don’t get stuck with an incompetent attorney.  Fee structure: Inquire about whether the attorney charges by the hour or works on a contingent basis. Be sure... read more

When Should You Litigate Custody Issues?

Going through the divorce process can be grueling for anyone — but if you’re concerned about the welfare of your children when in the care of your ex-spouse, you may be experiencing even more than the typical levels of anxiety. What can you do to ensure that your children remain safe by restricting access to their other parent until this person has shown they can responsibly and reliably care for your children? Can you avoid a lengthy court battle, or is litigation your only choice? Read on to learn more about the situations in which you may want to litigate your custody case, as well as your other options. What are your options when seeking custody of your children? Because divorce can be such a contentious process, a number of alternative ways of resolving disputes have been developed over the past few decades. These include mediation and arbitration, as well as litigation. Mediation is a dispute resolution method that focuses on bringing the parties together to discuss and decide upon common goals. A neutral mediator will speak to the parties (alone and together) to determine what each party would like to get out of the proceeding, and will help both parties work toward common goals. As often happens in divorce, you may be too angry at your soon-to-be ex-spouse to truly listen to what he or she is saying. A mediator can help reframe these statements in a more constructive way to help you refocus on doing what is right for your children.  Arbitration is similar to mediation, but is binding on the parties — in order to submit... read more

Answering Common Questions About Routine Family Law Issues

Family disputes can be some of the most venomous and visceral experiences that a person can go through. Unfortunately, it may be necessary to settle these disputes through the court of law, but navigating this part of the judicial system can be extremely daunting. Not surprisingly, many people may have some questions about common family law disputes, and learning the answers to these issues may help them to better understand two of the more common problems that can arise in family law.  How Can You Minimize The Risk Of Disputes Arising Following A Death? The passing of a family member is always a stressful experience to go through, and not surprisingly, it is also one of the most common sources of conflict and strife. Often, these disputes stem from the division of the deceased’s assets and possessions. Sadly, many families fail to realize that a little planning can help avoid these disputes.  By creating a sound estate plan, you can ensure that there is little room for strife or argument among your family members over possessions. When you form an estate, it will assume control over your assets, which will be impartially divided among your survivors according to your will. While the formation of an estate can be extremely complicated, an experienced family law attorney will be able to help you navigate this process as efficiently and easily as possible.  Is It Possible To Move To Another State When You Have Joint Custody? Divorce is another stressful topic that family law attorneys will have to regularly address. This is especially true when the divorce involves children because both parents... read more

About Me

Nothing is more terrifying than ending your marriage. After years of building a life together, it can be difficult to move forward separately. When I decided that things weren’t going to work out with my first husband, it took a lot of courage to meet with a divorce lawyer and take care of things. However, working with the lawyer was one of the best decisions that I made. In addition to diffusing the situation, my lawyer helped me to ask for the right things and get what I deserved. My blog is dedicated to helping other people to end their own marriages amicably.